रामहि केवल प्रेम पिआरा।—Why Love Alone Reaches Lord Ram?
Ankit Gupta | Apr 09, 2025, 06:13 IST
This line is spoken by Shabari, an old tribal woman who had been waiting her entire life for Lord Ram’s visit, guided only by her guru’s words. When Ram finally arrives at her humble ashram, she offers him berries — tasted first to ensure they are sweet — an act that would be considered disrespectful in any royal or ritualistic context.
Bhakti over Brahman: What Ram Truly Seeks
Ultimate symbol of selfless devotion
In the grand terrain of Hindu philosophy, Brahman—the impersonal, formless, all-pervasive reality—often stands as the pinnacle of metaphysical realization. Philosophers like Shankaracharya exalted it as the ultimate truth, where all distinctions dissolve. Yet, in the heart of the Ramcharitmanas, Tulsidas presents a different truth—not contradictory, but tenderly subversive: Ram does not seek metaphysical brilliance. He seeks Bhakti—pure love.
Tulsidas, steeped in the Advaitic tradition yet transformed by personal devotion, presents a bold choice: over the dry brilliance of scriptural mastery, Ram chooses the humble offering of love. This preference is not sentimental but deeply spiritual. Love, in its purest form, transcends duality. It does not analyze God; it surrenders to Him. It does not seek to explain the mystery; it longs to be one with it. This is why Shabari’s berries taste sweeter to Ram than any fire sacrifice conducted by the erudite.
This is not to say that knowledge or austerity are without merit, but they are not prerequisites for divine grace. Tulsidas writes:
"जाप तप ब्रत दीक्षा सब लेखा।
भजनु न भाव बिनु जुगु लेखा॥"
— All chanting, penance, and rituals amount to mere accounts;
without heartfelt devotion, even a yuga’s worth of effort is void.
The message is unmistakable: without bhav—that inner vibration of love—nothing reaches Ram. This is the beating heart of Bhakti. Even in the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna tells Arjuna:
"Patram pushpam phalam toyam yo me bhaktya prayacchati..."
A leaf, a flower, a fruit, or water—whatever is offered to Me with devotion, I accept.
Ram, as the Maryada Purushottam, represents divine consciousness in human form. And in that form, he teaches humanity how to relate with God—not through distance and fear, but through love and nearness. He does not establish temples; He sits in the hut of Shabari. He does not demand Vedic rituals; He tastes the half-eaten fruits of a devotee. Why? Because He is not a cold cosmic judge, but the eternal lover of the soul.
In the Ramcharitmanas, the divine prefers Bhakti over Brahman not because one is higher or lower, but because love is the doorway through which the human meets the divine without ego. The jnani may seek to dissolve the self, but the bhakta seeks to surrender it. And to Ram, surrender is the sweetest song.
Prem as the Path: The Inner Alchemy of Devotion
Devotion meeting its divine source
What is prem—love—that the Lord values it above all? Is it the same as the emotion we exchange in worldly relationships, or does it possess a deeper spiritual vibration? When Shabari declares, “Ramahi keval prem pyaara,” she is not talking about emotional attachment, infatuation, or longing tainted by ego. She is speaking of a love that is selfless, formless, and unconditional—a prem that transforms the soul and draws God like a magnet.
In spiritual texts, this kind of love is often described as Para-bhakti—the highest devotion, one that arises not from need or desire but from recognition of the divine as one’s very own self. It is not transactional. It does not say, “Give me this, and I will worship You.” It simply loves because it cannot help but love. This prem is the soul remembering its source, and in that remembrance, it dissolves the illusion of separateness.
Tulsidas’s concept of prem is intensely emotional, yet piercingly non-dual. The Bhakta does not wish to become God, nor does he wish to understand Him. The Bhakta wishes to lose himself in God. To vanish like a drop in the ocean, or more accurately, to burn like a camphor pellet—leaving no residue, no identity, only fragrance and light.
Even in the Ramayana, we see that those who are most dear to Ram—Hanuman, Vibhishan, Shabari, even the squirrel who helped in building the bridge—are not great kings or sages but humble devotees whose actions are small but hearts immense. Hanuman does not ask for moksha. He asks to remain forever devoted to Ram. Why? Because in loving God, he finds his truest self.
This is the inner alchemy of devotion. It does not need temples, mantras, or rituals. It needs an open heart. When that heart is surrendered—when the “I” dissolves into “You”—the boundary between the human and divine disappears. That is Prem. And that is what Ram cherishes.
The Revolutionary Spirituality of Tulsidas
Tulsidas
When we read “रामहि केवल प्रेम पिआरा। जान लेहु जो जाननिहारा॥” through modern eyes, we often miss the quiet fire burning beneath its simplicity. For in these gentle syllables, Tulsidas is not merely celebrating love—he is dismantling an entire framework of exclusion, hierarchy, and spiritual elitism.
Let us not forget: Tulsidas wrote in the 16th century—a time when the Sanskrit language was controlled by a priestly elite, spiritual merit was measured by birth, and access to the divine was mediated through rigid ritual. The common man was deemed too impure, too uneducated, or too low-born to touch the Vedas or approach God directly. It was into this climate that Tulsidas poured the nectar of Ramcharitmanas—in the vernacular tongue of the masses, Awadhi. And at its core, he planted this shloka like a thunderbolt wrapped in silk: God is not a ritualist. He is a lover..
This is spiritual revolution—not through rebellion, but through sweetness. Tulsidas does not attack the Vedas or the priestly class. He transcends them. He offers an alternate path: not through knowledge (jnana), austerity (tapasya), or karma (ritual action), but through pure-hearted devotion accessible to all.
This democratization of divinity was the hallmark of the Bhakti movement. Saints like Kabir, Ravidas, and Mirabai sang of love, not lineage. They bypassed temples and offered songs, tears, and surrender. And Tulsidas—deeply rooted in tradition—became its most poetic warrior. He turned the story of Ram into a mirror, not just for kings and scholars, but for the poor, the broken-hearted, the lonely, the unseen.
And in doing so, he did something profound: he redefined what it means to be spiritual. No longer was it about distance from the world, but intimacy with God. No longer was it about purity of body, but purity of heart. The true Brahmin, in Tulsidas’s eyes, was not the one born into ritual, but the one reborn in love.
The Shloka as a Seed of Liberation
Embodiment of dharma, love, and devotion
In this one line, Tulsidas distills the entirety of Ramcharitmanas. It is not a theological claim, but a spiritual shortcut. You can read all the seven kandas of the Ramayana, or you can sit with this one truth, and if it ripens in your heart—it will take you to Ram.
It challenges the ego, softens the intellect, and silences the restless mind. It makes saints out of the broken, and gurus out of the forgotten. For in this one seed—prem—lies the entire tree of spiritual fulfillment.
We began with Shabari, an old woman in the forest. But we end with ourselves. For in every one of us, there lives a Shabari—waiting, watching, hoping. And to her, this line is a promise:
You don’t need to know God. You just need to love Him.
And one day, He will walk into your hut, sit beside your humble offering, and say:
“This is all I ever wanted.”