By Riya Kumari
No one teaches you what happens after you start liking someone. Not the butterflies part - everyone talks about that. But the subtle shift where you stop pausing, stop questioning, stop checking in with yourself. You’re still smart. Still aware. You’re just… softer. You start calling emotional exposure “honesty” and self-abandonment “love.” Nothing looks wrong from the outside. But something inside you knows -you’re leaning forward too much.
No one teaches you what happens after you start liking someone. Not the butterflies part - everyone talks about that. But the subtle shift where you stop pausing, stop questioning, stop checking in with yourself. You’re still smart. Still aware. You’re just… softer. You start calling emotional exposure “honesty” and self-abandonment “love.” Nothing looks wrong from the outside. But something inside you knows -you’re leaning forward too much.
By Deepak Rajeev
Magnificent Mary Kom divorced her husband Karung Onkholer in December 2023. Allegations of financial betrayal and infidelity have surfaced from both sides. Mary Kom claims Onkholer withdrew large sums and transferred assets without her knowledge. Onkholer alleges Mary Kom had affairs. The couple's focus is now on their four children. Read this article to understand their whole story: from the moment of falling in love to the public divorce saga.
Magnificent Mary Kom divorced her husband Karung Onkholer in December 2023. Allegations of financial betrayal and infidelity have surfaced from both sides. Mary Kom claims Onkholer withdrew large sums and transferred assets without her knowledge. Onkholer alleges Mary Kom had affairs. The couple's focus is now on their four children. Read this article to understand their whole story: from the moment of falling in love to the public divorce saga.
By Nidhi
Conversations around alimony are often loud, angry, and stripped of context. This article steps away from outrage to examine what marriage and divorce actually look like for women. It explores careers put on hold, unpaid caregiving, custody responsibilities, and the social judgment women face for seeking financial support. It also questions why women are quickly labeled immoral or opportunistic for asking for stability after separation. Rather than arguing about bias in theory, the piece invites readers to look at responsibility, fairness, and reality as they exist beyond the internet narrative.
Conversations around alimony are often loud, angry, and stripped of context. This article steps away from outrage to examine what marriage and divorce actually look like for women. It explores careers put on hold, unpaid caregiving, custody responsibilities, and the social judgment women face for seeking financial support. It also questions why women are quickly labeled immoral or opportunistic for asking for stability after separation. Rather than arguing about bias in theory, the piece invites readers to look at responsibility, fairness, and reality as they exist beyond the internet narrative.
By Nidhi
An in-depth, feminist perspective on why more women are leaving marriages in India. This article examines patriarchy, emotional labour, gender roles, and male entitlement to explain why marriage is failing women—and why walking away is often an act of survival, not rebellion.
An in-depth, feminist perspective on why more women are leaving marriages in India. This article examines patriarchy, emotional labour, gender roles, and male entitlement to explain why marriage is failing women—and why walking away is often an act of survival, not rebellion.
By Nidhi
Why did our parents stay in unhappy marriages while many today choose divorce? This article explores the generational gap through emotional, social, and economic lenses. It looks at how marriage once functioned as survival, why leaving carried heavier consequences especially for women, and how emotional pain was normalized in earlier generations. It also examines how financial independence, emotional awareness, and shifting values have changed what people expect from marriage today. The piece offers a thoughtful, human perspective on why divorce is less about impatience and more about choice.
Why did our parents stay in unhappy marriages while many today choose divorce? This article explores the generational gap through emotional, social, and economic lenses. It looks at how marriage once functioned as survival, why leaving carried heavier consequences especially for women, and how emotional pain was normalized in earlier generations. It also examines how financial independence, emotional awareness, and shifting values have changed what people expect from marriage today. The piece offers a thoughtful, human perspective on why divorce is less about impatience and more about choice.
By Riya Kumari
Desire doesn’t die because love fades. It dies because certainty kills tension. Men don’t lose interest when they feel unloved, they lose interest when they feel unchallenged. When winning you feels guaranteed, your value silently drops in his nervous system. Not consciously. Biologically. Jealousy isn’t about drama or insecurity. It’s the brain’s ancient alarm system, something valuable might be taken away.
Desire doesn’t die because love fades. It dies because certainty kills tension. Men don’t lose interest when they feel unloved, they lose interest when they feel unchallenged. When winning you feels guaranteed, your value silently drops in his nervous system. Not consciously. Biologically. Jealousy isn’t about drama or insecurity. It’s the brain’s ancient alarm system, something valuable might be taken away.
By Nidhi
As more women achieve financial independence, marriage is no longer a necessity but a choice. This article explores why women today are delaying marriage or opting out entirely, not out of rebellion, but clarity. It examines how financial dependence once justified marriage, what women were promised but rarely received beyond money, and why emotional safety, respect, and shared responsibility now matter more than tradition. Through a deeply grounded perspective, the article questions what marriage offers women today when survival is no longer at stake.
As more women achieve financial independence, marriage is no longer a necessity but a choice. This article explores why women today are delaying marriage or opting out entirely, not out of rebellion, but clarity. It examines how financial dependence once justified marriage, what women were promised but rarely received beyond money, and why emotional safety, respect, and shared responsibility now matter more than tradition. Through a deeply grounded perspective, the article questions what marriage offers women today when survival is no longer at stake.
By Nidhi
Why does divorce often come as a shock to men but not to women? This article explores seven deeply rooted reasons behind this gap in perception. From invisible emotional labor and social conditioning to loss of autonomy and unequal expectations, it explains how women process marital breakdown long before divorce becomes official. Using social, psychological, and cultural insights, the piece sheds light on why divorce is often a breaking point for men but a release for women. A thoughtful look at marriage, power, and modern relationships.
Why does divorce often come as a shock to men but not to women? This article explores seven deeply rooted reasons behind this gap in perception. From invisible emotional labor and social conditioning to loss of autonomy and unequal expectations, it explains how women process marital breakdown long before divorce becomes official. Using social, psychological, and cultural insights, the piece sheds light on why divorce is often a breaking point for men but a release for women. A thoughtful look at marriage, power, and modern relationships.
By Nidhi
The 4B movement in South Korea began as a rebellion against patriarchy — women rejecting marriage, childbirth, and dependence on men. But could such a movement ever take root in India? This article explores why the answer is complex and sad. It dives into the deep social, economic, and psychological roots of patriarchy that keep Indian women divided, overworked, and conditioned to adjust. It also shows how men benefit from that division, turning women’s silence into a structure of power.
The 4B movement in South Korea began as a rebellion against patriarchy — women rejecting marriage, childbirth, and dependence on men. But could such a movement ever take root in India? This article explores why the answer is complex and sad. It dives into the deep social, economic, and psychological roots of patriarchy that keep Indian women divided, overworked, and conditioned to adjust. It also shows how men benefit from that division, turning women’s silence into a structure of power.
By Nidhi
This article looks at a hard truth many women learn the difficult way: love alone cannot change a man. Through Chanakya Niti, psychology, and everyday relationship patterns, it explores why ego, habits, and mindset matter more than promises. It understands the emotional reason women try to “fix” men and how society romanticizes that role. At its core, the piece reminds readers to watch actions over words, habits over dreams, and values over apologies because real change happens only when a man truly wants it.
This article looks at a hard truth many women learn the difficult way: love alone cannot change a man. Through Chanakya Niti, psychology, and everyday relationship patterns, it explores why ego, habits, and mindset matter more than promises. It understands the emotional reason women try to “fix” men and how society romanticizes that role. At its core, the piece reminds readers to watch actions over words, habits over dreams, and values over apologies because real change happens only when a man truly wants it.
By Riya Kumari
By Nidhi
By Kazi Nasir
By Nidhi
By Kazi Nasir
By Deepak Rajeev
By Deepak Rajeev