Monogamy Is Outdated—Here’s Why Millennials Are Embracing Non-Traditional Relationships
Nikita Kanyal | Feb 15, 2025, 22:58 IST
Is monogamy a fading idea? Millennials in India and globally are abandoning conventional relationships for open relationships, polyamory, and ethical non-monogamy. With Bollywood celebrities suggesting non-traditional love and an increasing number of couples reshaping commitment, is this the future of romance or merely a temporary trend? From relationship agreements to dismantling the soulmate illusion, this comprehensive exploration of contemporary love questions everything you believed about monogamy. Are open relationships indicative of emotional growth or simply a rationalization for infidelity? Get ready, because this discussion is set to become intense!
Why Monogamy Is No Longer the ‘Default’
Rise of Open Relationships and Polyamory
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For centuries, monogamy wasn’t just the norm it was the only option. Society, religion, and culture drilled the idea into our heads: find "the one," commit, and never stray.
But millennials aren’t buying it. Here’s why:
1. The Illusion of ‘Forever’ Is Cracking
With divorce rates skyrocketing (even if millennials are divorcing less, they’re also marrying less), many are questioning: Is lifelong monogamy even realistic? Couples are waking up to the idea that love changes over time. Instead of forcing themselves into forever, they’re choosing fluidity partners who meet different needs at different stages of life.
2. Infidelity Is Everywhere—But What If It Didn’t Have to Be?
Let’s be real: cheating is rampant. Studies show that nearly 1 in 5 people in monogamous relationships admit to cheating.
So, millennials are asking the uncomfortable question: What if monogamy itself is the problem? Instead of suppressing attraction, they’re exploring ethical non-monogamy, where honesty, communication, and multiple partners replace deception and guilt.
3. The ‘Soulmate’ Myth Is Dying
Why do we expect one person to fulfill every emotional, physical, and intellectual need? Millennials are realizing that friendships, community, and multiple romantic partners can create a more realistic and fulfilling love life.
The Rise of Open Relationships and Polyamory
Rise of Open Relationships and Polyamory
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The numbers don’t lie: 1 in 5 people have been in a consensual non-monogamous relationship.
From high-profile celebrities (Will & Jada Smith, Bella Thorne, and even Megan Fox hinting at it) to everyday couples shifting away from monogamy, open relationships are no longer taboo.
And here’s what people are realizing:
- More Honesty, Less Cheating – No sneaking around, no betrayal, just radical honesty.
- Less Pressure on One Person – No one has to be your everything, which takes off the pressure.
Here’s the counterargument:
- Cheating exists because monogamy is forced. What if, instead of breaking rules, we just created new ones?
- Jealousy is real but so is communication. Many non-monogamous couples work through jealousy instead of avoiding it.
- Love isn’t ownership. Millennials are embracing relationships where love isn’t about possession but about choice.
The Future of Love: Will Monogamy Survive?
Future of Love
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So, what happens next? Will traditional marriage and monogamy disappear, or will they evolve into something new?
- Some predict relationship contracts instead of marriage where couples define their own rules instead of blindly following tradition.
- Others believe Gen Z will either double down on monogamy or push boundaries even further.
- One thing is clear: Millennials aren’t settling for outdated ideas of love.
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