Selective Ignorance Is the New Self-Care—and Even the Gita Agrees

Manika | May 14, 2025, 06:15 IST
Last week, I found peace in the unlikeliest place: the hostel washroom. While the corridor echoed with gossip about who’s dating whom and why is warden on leave, I was inside brushing my teeth and humming Shree Krishna Govind Hare Murari. Not because I’m holy. But because I had finally decided to quit the one addiction no one talks about: knowing everything about everyone.Turns out, selective ignorance might just be the new spirituality. And the Gita agrees.We often think ignorance is foolishness. But the real wisdom lies in knowing what not to know. So this is not an ode to being clueless. It’s a humorous, hard-hitting reflection on how we’re drowning in noise — and how Gita-style detachment can be our life raft.

Welcome to the Age of Over information

We live in a world where you can get updates about celebrity divorces faster than your own exam results. Social media has turned every chai break into an episode of Bigg Boss. We know what politicians are eating, what influencers are wearing, and what strangers on Reddit think about AI.
But ask someone how they feel today?
Radio silence.
We’ve become experts in the world and amateurs in our own minds.

Gita and the Gunas: Where Ignorance Isn't Always Bad

The Gita talks about three qualities: Sattva (purity), Rajas (activity), and Tamas (ignorance).
Tamas is often seen as darkness, inertia, laziness. But here’s the twist: even Tamas has a role.
Think about it — when you’re exhausted, it’s not Sattva or Rajas that saves you. It’s a blissfully ignorant nap. A no-notifications zone. A decision to shut off the brain and let the heart breathe.
Tamas grounds us. Like gravity. You wouldn’t float around 24/7, would you?

Ignorance Is Not Stupidity, It’s Strategy

Choosing not to know is powerful.
Not opening your ex’s Instagram story? Power.
Not reacting to your roommate’s passive-aggressive drama? Inner peace.
Not replying to 2 a.m. work messages? Bhagavad-level detachment.
Krishna never said, "Go spy on the Kauravas." He said, "Focus on your dharma."
If Arjuna had spent the war wondering whether Duryodhana liked his strategy reel or not, the Mahabharata would’ve been a sitcom.

Hostel Politics and the Power of Looking Away

In hostels, ignorance is a survival skill.
Your roommate's alarm rings at 5 a.m. but he still sleeps till 9.Someone left Maggi on the stove for the third time.There’s a mysterious pair of socks in your cupboard that you swear aren’t yours.
Do you pick every battle?
Or do you become Krishna, look out of the window, and sip your tea?

Knowing Less = Living More

Here's what ignorance gives you:
Mental Space: The fewer pointless facts you store, the more clarity you gain.
Peace: Not every battle needs your sword.
Freedom: Letting go of FOMO means actually living in the moment.
Deeper Connections: When you’re not busy being updated, you start being present.

Ignorance isn’t about closing your eyes. It’s about choosing where you look.

What Krishna Would Do in 2025

Let’s say Krishna lived in your hostel. What would he do?
  • Mute 15 WhatsApp groups.
  • Exit the ones named “Random Shit Only”.
  • Unfollow people who drain his vibe.
  • Probably say, "Arjuna, log kya kahenge is not a valid reason."

Krishna didn’t feed Arjuna every detail about the war. He gave him perspective.
We don’t need more information. We need more insight.

Selective Ignorance = Intelligent Awareness

Here's a cheat code:
Be ignorant about things that don’t affect your growth.
Be hyper-aware of your own thoughts, habits, and reactions.
Be wise enough to know the difference.
This isn’t apathy. This is ancient mindfulness.

Detachment, Not Disconnection

Gita doesn’t ask you to disconnect from the world. It asks you not to get entangled.
Like a headphone wire in your pocket — the more you pull, the messier it gets.
Instead, observe without absorbing. Be informed without being inflamed.

Stay Informed, But Don’t Drown

Ignorance isn’t a curse. Sometimes, it’s a cushion.
In a world obsessed with breaking news, choose to be whole.In a culture that rewards overthinking, reward yourself with silence.In a life full of unnecessary noise, become the person who listens inward.
Like Krishna in Kurukshetra, be calm amidst chaos.
Because sometimes, the most intelligent thing you can do… is to not know.

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