What If Everything You’re Chasing is a Distraction? – Gita Reflects
Manika | Jul 02, 2025, 18:00 IST
I remember rushing to check my to-do list right after waking up.Emails. Deadlines. Notifications. Reels. Tea. More tea.Every hour accounted for. Every conversation half-heard.I was doing everything “right”—chasing growth, goals, the next big thing.But inside?There was a quiet discomfort. A whisper.“Why are you running so fast—and where are you even going?”I ignored it.Until burnout hit.Until I achieved what I thought I wanted, and felt… nothing.One night, in search of something real, I opened the Bhagavad Gita.That’s when it clicked:Maybe the chase itself… is the distraction.Maybe I’ve been missing life while trying to build one.
1. The Modern Race: Always Doing, Rarely Being
“When the mind follows wandering desires, it carries away the understanding—just as the wind carries a boat on the water.” — Gita 2.67
Let’s be honest. We’re constantly running:
- New job
- Better phone
- Healthier body
- More likes
- Faster delivery
We think distractions are outside—social media, people, noise.
But the biggest distraction?
The restless mind, always needing the next thing.
2. Chasing Goals Isn’t Wrong—But Forgetting the Self Is
Be at peace
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The Gita never says don’t act.
It says—don’t lose yourself in action.
We chase outcomes—titles, fame, validation—because we think they define us.
But Krishna reminds Arjuna:
What you do is not who you are.
You are not your productivity.
You are not your resume.
You are the soul watching all this unfold.
3. So… What Are We Actually Distracting Ourselves From?
- unresolved pain
- unmet needs
- uncomfortable truths
Easier to hustle than to heal.
Easier to plan five years ahead than to ask:
Krishna tells Arjuna to pause.
To reflect.
To return to his dharma, not the world’s definition of success.
4. How to Know You’re Distracted, Not Devoted
Behavior | Distracted Self | Aligned Self |
---|---|---|
Motivation | Fear of missing out | Inner purpose |
Speed | Rushed, reactive | Steady, deliberate |
Outcome | Craving success | Detached from result |
Mindset | “Not enough yet” | “I am enough now” |
Energy | Drained & anxious | Centered & focused |
Krishna didn’t ask Arjuna to quit the battle.
He asked him to align before acting.
Your chase is not the problem.
But if it disconnects you from yourself, it’s a distraction.
5. Krishna’s Call: From Restlessness to Realness
Take Krishna's advice from Gita
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When Arjuna collapses in confusion, Krishna doesn’t say:
He says:
Because the solution to modern exhaustion isn’t more action.
It’s awareness.
Translation?
Pull back. Retreat from the noise. Reconnect with why you’re doing what you’re doing.
6. Are Your Dreams Yours—Or Are They Borrowed?
Many of us chase goals that were never truly ours:
- Parental expectations
- Society’s definition of success
- Instagram’s highlight reel
What if the real reason you feel lost… is because the dream you’re chasing was never yours to begin with?
7. Action Without Awareness is Just Motion
- “Are your actions pulling you closer to peace?”
- “Or just further into performance?”
- acting with presence
- acting without attachment
- acting without anxiety for outcome
8. How to Recenter (Without Giving Up on Life)
- Pause before reacting → Ask, “What would I do if I wasn’t afraid?”
- Reflect daily → Even 5 mins of journaling: “What felt aligned today?”
- Meditate → Start with breath. Add Gita verses. Reconnect with stillness.
- Detach from result → Focus on the process. Let go of the scoreboard.
- Serve selflessly → Even one act of kindness reorients your energy.
9. The Freedom of Not Chasing
Be like a kid
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There’s a kind of joy that comes not from achieving—but from arriving.
From choosing intention over impulse.
From knowing: I am not behind. I am not late. I am exactly where I need to be.
This doesn’t mean laziness. It means clarity. Your power doesn’t lie in running faster. It lies in knowing where you’re going—and why.
You Were Never Meant to Chase. You Were Meant to Choose.
Let the Gita guide you back:
- To presence over performance
- To awareness over ambition
- To being over chasing
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