1. Comfort: The Key to a Forever Love
Selena has been pretty vocal about how comfortable she’s felt in this relationship—the most comfortable she’s ever been in the longest time. Look, I don’t know about you, but when someone is talking about comfort and their relationship, you know they’re either ready to get married or they’ve found a way to live in sweatpants for eternity (which, honestly, same). But the real tea here is that Benny Blanco doesn’t just appreciate her for her achievements or her star power—he appreciates her for who she is. Cue the sound of every single person reading this swooning into a puddle.
2. Treating Her Right
Benny is over here worshipping her—no, seriously, he’s in deep. He’s not just falling for her, he’s plummeting into a pit of admiration and respect. And that’s when you know it’s good, right? The man who thinks he doesn’t deserve you is always the one who treats you like you deserve the universe. It’s like he’s this rare gem, and you’re the one who keeps picking him up from the jewelry store like, “Are you sure no one else wants him? Because I’ll take him.”
3. Little Things That Matter
But wait—there’s more, Benny's not just a sweet talker. No, he’s got the full package: he cooks for her, he’s got a good heart, and he’s funny—basically all the little things that make Selena feel special in the simple, everyday moments. If you’re still wondering if he’s the real deal, let me tell you this: ever since she met him, this woman has been glowing—and I’m not talking about highlighter, people. She’s genuinely radiating. Confidence? Through the roof. A clear sign that Benny knows how to sprinkle in those relationship ingredients—respect, care, and the ability to make you laugh like you’re in your own rom-com montage.
4. Mature, Emotionally Secure Love
This is a mature, emotionally secure kind of love. It’s the kind of love that makes you feel like you’re floating—without the drama, without the second-guessing, without that whole what are they thinking about me? vibe. If you’ve ever longed for a predictable love that feels like home, like you’re wrapped in a blanket of trust, friendship, and no pressure—well, Selena just described it. She found that in Benny. You can practically hear her sighing in contentment. He’s her best friend. And, as we all know, a best friend is the one person who can make you laugh when you’re crying over spilled coffee.
5. Being Fully Present
Now, let’s just pause and marvel at their morning routine for a second. No, seriously. These two get up at the crack of dawn—before the rest of the world even knows what’s happening. They enjoy those quiet, still moments together, before the chaos of the day begins. And you know what Benny says about it? "I have a true best friend that I get to do everything in the world with, and every day is the best day of my life." I mean, can we just? Cue heart melting. There’s something so sweet about someone who’s genuinely excited to wake up with you every single day. We all need that kind of energy in our lives.
6. Finding Something Rare
And Benny? He’s over here, looking in the mirror every morning, wondering how this good thing actually happened. Yeah, buddy, we’re all wondering the same thing. In all seriousness, Selena’s journey to this moment is a gorgeous reminder: true love isn’t rushed. It doesn’t have to be perfect (thank God), but when it clicks? You just know. Benny’s the guy who makes her feel like she’s finally come home. They’ve found something rare—and it’s as simple as that.