The Strength of She: Why Female Friendships are Life’s True Treasure

The world around you may crumble one day, but the friendships you form go a long way. No matter who you are, the unwritten bonds of sisterhood always empower you. You might be dealing with a rough patch at your workplace, a dirty breakup, or anything else- but as long as your sisters have your back, you know you’ll be alright. That is the power of female friendships, where there is no judgment, no distance- just pure love.

Let’s get this straight: All female friends have made plans to move in together and have a tranquil life where they don’t need anyone else except one another at some point in their lives. After all, that sounds like the most beautiful thing in this world. This is where the concept of female friends transcends into “sisterhood.”, where we talk about the sisters who have an unspoken understanding of shared joys and sorrows of living.
A true bond of sisterhood is unbreakable as it is built on empathy and genuine connection. Having a group of female friends is no less than a blessing as it is a chosen family that sticks with you through thick and thin. From celebrating your smallest wins to holding you together in times of crisis- female friends are a constant support system. Strong bonding between female friends creates a safe space for sharing vulnerabilities, building a sense of deep understanding and care.

In a world where consistent and conscious attempts are made to pit women against each other, having girls who uplift other girls creates a sense of comfort. A line from America Ferrera’s popular monologue in Barbie- “I’m just so tired of watching myself and every single other woman tie herself into knots so that people will like us.”, rightly depicts the adversities of being a woman. But when your sisters are beside you to support your dreams and ambitions, you are already an achiever.
The world thrives on emotions, thoughtfulness, and kindness, and yet undervalues the quality to nurture these ideals. However, true female friends create such an environment for you, so that you can step out of your comfort zone without fear and accomplish what you deserve. That’s where the virtues of being a fulfilled human being come from, as it teaches you the importance of tending to the world with compassion and selflessness.

This is the most satisfying feeling in the world, as it confirms that you deserve all the happiness in the world and are more than capable of achieving greatness.
It’s not all personal and emotional—the connection is scientific as well! Studies have revealed a fascinating phenomenon: menstrual synchrony, whereby women living close by automatically sync their menstrual cycles. The exact reasons behind this are not yet clear, but some theories have tried to explain that this may be due to pheromones, i.e., subtle chemical signals released by the body that gradually synchronise women’s menstrual cycles.
But ultimately, as beautiful as all these things sound- strong female friendships do not form automatically, such bonds need genuine intentions and consistent efforts. Think of it as a “family that eats together stays together” kind of a situation, where we are not just talking about dining together, but experiencing ups and downs collectively, savouring moments of laughter and deep conversations. Girlhood is a spectrum, and so are the relationships that women form with each other by being a shoulder to lean on.

Embracing the profound impact that female friendships have on our lives will help create a ripple effect of support and empowerment, where each woman will feel content and complete.