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Fill Your Cup First, Let the World Drink from the Overflow
Fill Your Cup First, Let the World Drink from the Overflow

By Shivika Gupta

We’ve all heard the saying: “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” But in a world that glorifies hustle, selflessness, and constantly showing up for others—whether at home, work, or online—this wisdom often gets lost in the noise. We’re praised for being available, responsive, productive. Rarely are we encouraged to pause, refill, and recharge. And yet, the truth is this: when you fill your own cup first, you don’t just serve yourself—you serve the world far better.

We’ve all heard the saying: “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” But in a world that glorifies hustle, selflessness, and constantly showing up for others—whether at home, work, or online—this wisdom often gets lost in the noise. We’re praised for being available, responsive, productive. Rarely are we encouraged to pause, refill, and recharge. And yet, the truth is this: when you fill your own cup first, you don’t just serve yourself—you serve the world far better.

Behind the Hashtags: The Reality of Millennial Motherhood
Behind the Hashtags: The Reality of Millennial Motherhood

By Shivika Gupta

She posted a photo of her newborn wrapped in a soft muslin cloth, her skin glowing under a warm golden filter. The caption read: “My whole world in my arms.” What it didn’t show? The tears she cried in the bathroom just ten minutes before. The way her body still hurt in places she couldn’t describe. The panic in her chest every time the baby whimpered. Welcome to millennial motherhood. Where Instagram feeds look like lullabies, but reality often feels like chaos. We’re the generation who grew up with dial-up internet and Disney princesses, and now we're raising kids while battling expectations from both our moms and mommy bloggers. We’re expected to be gentle yet productive, mindful yet tireless, Instagrammable but deeply real. And we’re tired.

She posted a photo of her newborn wrapped in a soft muslin cloth, her skin glowing under a warm golden filter. The caption read: “My whole world in my arms.” What it didn’t show? The tears she cried in the bathroom just ten minutes before. The way her body still hurt in places she couldn’t describe. The panic in her chest every time the baby whimpered. Welcome to millennial motherhood. Where Instagram feeds look like lullabies, but reality often feels like chaos. We’re the generation who grew up with dial-up internet and Disney princesses, and now we're raising kids while battling expectations from both our moms and mommy bloggers. We’re expected to be gentle yet productive, mindful yet tireless, Instagrammable but deeply real. And we’re tired.

That Day? That Wasn’t Anger. That Was My Inner Kali Breaking Free
That Day? That Wasn’t Anger. That Was My Inner Kali Breaking Free

By Shivika Gupta

There are moments in life when we feel a surge of emotion so intense, so consuming, that it feels as if we’ve lost control. In many cases, this is categorized as anger—an emotion that society often urges us to suppress or manage. But what if, instead of anger, what we’re experiencing is something deeper? Something more primal? What if, in those moments of intense emotional eruption, we are actually tapping into a force far older and more powerful than we can comprehend? A force that has been misunderstood, feared, and even revered for centuries? That day when I exploded, when I felt my body heat up with rage and my mind was clouded with fury—what if it wasn’t anger at all, but the manifestation of my inner Kali breaking free?

There are moments in life when we feel a surge of emotion so intense, so consuming, that it feels as if we’ve lost control. In many cases, this is categorized as anger—an emotion that society often urges us to suppress or manage. But what if, instead of anger, what we’re experiencing is something deeper? Something more primal? What if, in those moments of intense emotional eruption, we are actually tapping into a force far older and more powerful than we can comprehend? A force that has been misunderstood, feared, and even revered for centuries? That day when I exploded, when I felt my body heat up with rage and my mind was clouded with fury—what if it wasn’t anger at all, but the manifestation of my inner Kali breaking free?

Retirement? I Just Want 8 Hours of Sleep and No Emails
Retirement? I Just Want 8 Hours of Sleep and No Emails

By Shivika Gupta

"Not Dreaming Big, Just Dreaming at All." There was a time when retirement looked like a golden beach, a white house with a porch swing, and grandchildren running in the backyard. But now? The most recurring fantasy among millennials isn't a villa in Goa or an apartment in Tokyo—it’s eight uninterrupted hours of sleep and a digital detox that doesn’t scream “you missed a meeting!” Forget early retirement. Most of us just want rest before we combust.

"Not Dreaming Big, Just Dreaming at All." There was a time when retirement looked like a golden beach, a white house with a porch swing, and grandchildren running in the backyard. But now? The most recurring fantasy among millennials isn't a villa in Goa or an apartment in Tokyo—it’s eight uninterrupted hours of sleep and a digital detox that doesn’t scream “you missed a meeting!” Forget early retirement. Most of us just want rest before we combust.

Your Inner Pooh Is Waiting to Be Unleashed—Here’s How to Let Her Out
Your Inner Pooh Is Waiting to Be Unleashed—Here’s How to Let Her Out

By Shivika Gupta

Before “Hot Girl Era,” There Was Her Before Instagram influencers, before #MainCharacterVibes, before we even knew how to contour—a girl in a metallic top, flared pants, and a hair flip entered the scene and changed everything. Pooja aka Pooh, from Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham, wasn’t just a character—she was a cultural reset.This isn’t just nostalgia. This is a call to unleash your inner Pooh—and live a life where self-worth isn’t a question, it’s the answer

Before “Hot Girl Era,” There Was Her Before Instagram influencers, before #MainCharacterVibes, before we even knew how to contour—a girl in a metallic top, flared pants, and a hair flip entered the scene and changed everything. Pooja aka Pooh, from Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham, wasn’t just a character—she was a cultural reset.This isn’t just nostalgia. This is a call to unleash your inner Pooh—and live a life where self-worth isn’t a question, it’s the answer

This Is Why You Miss Being 17—Even If It Was a Mess
This Is Why You Miss Being 17—Even If It Was a Mess

By Shivika Gupta

Seventeen wasn’t peaceful. It was acne, crushes, crying at 2 AM to Avril Lavigne, and swearing you’d run away after your boards. But now? You’d give anything to feel that alive again. You miss 17—not because it was perfect—but because you were. Not polished. Not productive. But present. Real. Hopeful. Raw. This isn’t about missing school or uniforms. It’s about missing the version of you that didn’t yet edit yourself to survive.

Seventeen wasn’t peaceful. It was acne, crushes, crying at 2 AM to Avril Lavigne, and swearing you’d run away after your boards. But now? You’d give anything to feel that alive again. You miss 17—not because it was perfect—but because you were. Not polished. Not productive. But present. Real. Hopeful. Raw. This isn’t about missing school or uniforms. It’s about missing the version of you that didn’t yet edit yourself to survive.

Why Following Your Passion Might Be the Worst Advice—Unless You Read This Gita Verse
Why Following Your Passion Might Be the Worst Advice—Unless You Read This Gita Verse

By Shivika Gupta

The Passion Trap—And What the Gita Says About It.“Follow your passion” sounds inspiring—until you’re passionate, broke, lost, and exhausted.We’ve glamorized passion so much that people feel like failures if they’re not obsessed, fulfilled, and wealthy by 25. But the Bhagavad Gita cuts through the noise with a truth that feels uncomfortable—and deeply freeing: “It is better to do one’s own duty (dharma) imperfectly than to do another’s perfectly.”

The Passion Trap—And What the Gita Says About It.“Follow your passion” sounds inspiring—until you’re passionate, broke, lost, and exhausted.We’ve glamorized passion so much that people feel like failures if they’re not obsessed, fulfilled, and wealthy by 25. But the Bhagavad Gita cuts through the noise with a truth that feels uncomfortable—and deeply freeing: “It is better to do one’s own duty (dharma) imperfectly than to do another’s perfectly.”

She Said No to the JACKET, not to HIM —But Now He’s Offended, Why?
She Said No to the JACKET, not to HIM —But Now He’s Offended, Why?

By Shivika Gupta

“No, thank you.” That’s all she said.She was cold—but not uncomfortable. She was capable—but not ungrateful. She was simply okay. And she said no to the jacket. But somehow, her refusal wasn’t just received as a boundary—it was taken as a blow to his identity. He went quiet. Awkward. Maybe even distant. Because in that moment, he didn’t just hear “no.” He heard: You’re not needed. You’re not valued. You’re not wanted.

“No, thank you.” That’s all she said.She was cold—but not uncomfortable. She was capable—but not ungrateful. She was simply okay. And she said no to the jacket. But somehow, her refusal wasn’t just received as a boundary—it was taken as a blow to his identity. He went quiet. Awkward. Maybe even distant. Because in that moment, he didn’t just hear “no.” He heard: You’re not needed. You’re not valued. You’re not wanted.

Once We Prayed for 90%, Now We Just Want to Be Okay !
Once We Prayed for 90%, Now We Just Want to Be Okay !

By Shivika Gupta

Why “Being Okay” Is the New 90% ? "Being okay" isn’t a low bar. It’s a miracle in this generation. If you’re eating well, sleeping well, laughing without faking it, and showing up with an open heart—you’ve already won. In a world drowning in FOMO, perfection, and productivity culture, just surviving with grace is a flex. We used to pray for a perfect future. Now we just pray to feel safe in the present.

Why “Being Okay” Is the New 90% ? "Being okay" isn’t a low bar. It’s a miracle in this generation. If you’re eating well, sleeping well, laughing without faking it, and showing up with an open heart—you’ve already won. In a world drowning in FOMO, perfection, and productivity culture, just surviving with grace is a flex. We used to pray for a perfect future. Now we just pray to feel safe in the present.

Not All Medicine Comes in Bottles—Some Comes in HUGS!
Not All Medicine Comes in Bottles—Some Comes in HUGS!

By Shivika Gupta

You don’t have to wear a white coat to heal. You don’t have to prescribe pills. Your voice, your presence, your love—they are healing forces. Don’t underestimate your power. Your hug could be the turning point in someone’s worst week. Your “how are you really?” could be the reason someone feels seen after days of silence.In a world obsessed with metrics, be someone who measures in meaning.Because in the end, most of us don’t remember the medicine we took. We remember the hands that held us when we couldn’t hold ourselves.

You don’t have to wear a white coat to heal. You don’t have to prescribe pills. Your voice, your presence, your love—they are healing forces. Don’t underestimate your power. Your hug could be the turning point in someone’s worst week. Your “how are you really?” could be the reason someone feels seen after days of silence.In a world obsessed with metrics, be someone who measures in meaning.Because in the end, most of us don’t remember the medicine we took. We remember the hands that held us when we couldn’t hold ourselves.

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